Introduction

This is a story of my family.  This is a story of whiteness.  This is a story about religion and marriage and gender.  It is a story about truth and reconciliation, and making sense of pain and trauma.  

It is about survivor guilt, doing things in order to survive, and being allowed the conditions to survive.  It is about creating the conditions for survival for others, and letting go.


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